7 Ways to Make a Conversation With Anyone


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F4Zu5ZZAG7I

1. first word is a flood gate
2. ask a personal question "where do you come from, and where is your family stay"
3. share a me-too
4. pay a unique complement
5. ask an opinion - about something general - nothing specific
6. be present - make eye contact
7. name, place, animal, thing - remember these things

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